Tears filled my eyes a few days ago when I saw there really is a national Husband caregiver day, to go along with the beloved Father’s day that we all know.
I have a husband who knows far too well, both of these roles.
Neither of us knew when we got married at 19 & 25 years old, the things we would soon walk through. That he would have to care for me at times when I would struggle to care for myself. That he would have to somehow find a way to manage our kids, our household and my care all while trying to have a career. But as I have gotten diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis almost 10 years ago, that is exactly what he has done.
That takes so much courage, strength and fortitude. And somehow he’s doing it, all by the grace of God.
There are days I haven’t been sure how bad things will get with my health and I have wondered the extent of the care he would have to provide for me, and yet he doesn’t complain or blink an eye at the work it takes.
He has grown so much in patience and kindness over the years as he has sat with me while I cry, or I’m so afraid, or I simply just can’t move.
He has quickly stepped up to the plate in loving on our kids and providing the stability they need when clearly, sickness doesn’t always provide that.
He has also helped to keep our home beautiful when everything else seems like it’s falling apart, and when I’m unable to contribute.
You all see an awesome friend, a man of God, a hard worker—and I get to see that and even so much more.
He is truly the rock of our home, and I am so grateful for all he has done for our family to get us through the last 14 years of marriage and kids.
And so I dedicate this blog post to him today, as a tribute and public recognition of the incredible man that he is. I am so thankful and honored to be his wife and to be raising our beautiful kids together while we walk this journey. As painful at times as it is, there is also so much beauty to be found in the midst of it.
Happy Fathers day and Husband Caregiver day! You are more than I could have even prayed for! I love you!